Thursday, November 3, 2011

The Last Few Days

Since Monday I have been subjected to stalker like behavior from someone that I threw out of my life. I have let it go for the last few days hoping that this person would burn out and get bored with talking to my voicemail. Sadly this is not the case. Yesterday he stopped calling and I thought it was done, but today I got text messages from this person that rattled me so much that I called the cops and changed my phone number.

The last few days have been hell and  I would not wish this on anyone. Hopefully this is all now finished because I have a new number and I filed a report with the police. If it continues, I will continue to push for charges about this person. All I wanted was to be done with them and they went bat shit crazy on me. Sadly I never thought that this person would. Sigh.

6 comments:

  1. When it comes to dealing with people from our pasts, we should always 'measure twice and cut once' before we make the decision to allow them back in... under ANY pretense..!

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  2. I agree and this episode totally reinforces that to me. I guess you can not go home again.. Sigh.

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  3. Oh, I please be watchful and take care of yourself.

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  4. I am being careful. I changed phone numbers and my building knows what is going on. I also filed a report..

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  5. Sounds like you handled a tough situation well, Tawnya. I agree with Mark about using great care in renewing old relationships, though in this case I'd go with measuring once and cutting twice, preferably with a large, heavy knife. (In fairness, I've seen old relationships restarted successfully also.) Be careful out there.

    Ben
    http://kissthecook-ben.blogspot.com/

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  6. Thanks Ben... the strange thing is that we had been talking for like 9 months or so and now this happened because I found out that most of the things this person was telling me were not true. So I decided that I had enough lies and tired of being lied to. So I cut off communication. That is what started all of this. You are right. I knew him in high school and we dated when I was 19. I never thought it would get to this.

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